It sounds simple enough doesn’t it? You burn more calories than you take in in order to lose weight. To gain weight you burn fewer calories than you take in and to maintain weight you balance calories eaten with calories burned. If only weight management were that easy in real life. But it is not. So how do you find out how to lose weight fast?

Obesity On The Rise

We have all heard the statistics that one-third of adults, 72 million people, are obese. We have probably also heard that 16% of children are obese, that more and more kids are getting lifestyle diseases like diabetes II, high blood pressure, and high cholesterol at younger and younger ages. It has been said that today’s youth will be the first generation not to outlive their parents in more than a hundred years.

Smacking Ourselves Into Line

It is no secret that being overweight sets you up for a myriad of health problems. We know in our heads that it would be best if we got fit. Still, many do not even try. Others try and regain the weight. Some people develop eating disorders and laxative addictions. Why does it not seem to matter that we can die at an earlier age? Part of the answer is that food is more than just something we eat to stay alive.

Giving Up, Getting Fatter

Maybe we should all just give up the struggle and get more and more unhealthy and obese. Ultimately, that does not seem like a very attractive option. Maybe we should go on a very low calorie diet and get rid of the weight once and for all. That is too drastic for most people to do for very long. Before you decide to give dieting one more try, look at your expectations of yourself. Chances are you are expecting yourself to achieve 100% compliance with your diet. Your success is doomed before you even begin. Nobody can be 100% compliant with anything 100% of the time for any extended length of time. Life gets in the way.

Looking At Things Differently

What would happen if we adjusted our expectations of ourselves before we even ate that last piece of chocolate cake before we start our diet? We know that berating ourselves does not work. Re-thinking the issue and looking at it from another point of view is what we need to do. Do you think that you could eat healthy meals 50% of all of your meals in a day or a week? Could you do it for 60%, 70% or 90% of all of your meals? At what point does the thought of not having unfettered access to your favorite foods start to cause anxiety in you? Start right at that point. If you start getting anxious at eating healthy 60% of meals, begin eating healthy for that percentage of meals. You make it okay to eat less healthy foods and so you do not feel deprived. Over a few weeks, work your way up the percentage ladder until you are eating 90% of your meals based on healthy foods and 10% whatever you want to eat.

Now think about exercise in the same way. Could you see yourself actually doing some exercise for five minutes a day? What about 10 minutes or 30 minutes? Could you do this two or three times a week to begin with? Begin at the point you can physically and mentally handle and work your way up to exercising 30 minutes five days a week.

Paying Attention To Your Feelings

Has listening to that critical voice in your head helped you to understand how to lose weight fast? Probably not. It is time to take another track and acknowledge the fact that not having access to or eating our favorite foods to our heart’s content is frightening for many people. Food is a comfort and the thought of being deprived brings up a lot of anxiety. What if we respect that? Have a talk with yourself. Let that scared part of you know that you are not out to deprive yourself. You will have a chance to eat that beloved food, but not in excess. Make sure you tell yourself that you will take fat burning step by step so that this time you will have permanent success and be kind to yourself in the process.

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