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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Best Selling Author , writes… …

Five Practices To Stay Away From While Dating.

1. Competition. A Date isn’t the time to compare yourself, your Ex-, your failures, with his or hers.

2. Skill. Having to prove your skill at being an enjoyable partner is too much work and it will show.

3. Chance. Remember you wanted to go on this date. In the end, there isn’t chance involved.

4. Endurance. A date is not a competition to see who will last the longest in being entertaining and amusing.

5. Rules. Stone-set rules are the end for new possibilities.

Five Practices to DO While on a Date.

1. Play. Although these may sound simple, I’d be willing to wager many of you don’t look at dating as a playful exercise. Can you recall when you were the innocent kid playing in the sand? How perfect was that? No place to go, nothing to prove. Just muddy fun! Find ways to go into your date with fun. Even if your date is a serious type. Make it your game to look for fun. You don’t need to see him or her again if they cannot be easy-going and have fun. Empowering yourself with the Law of Attraction is hugely helpful for Relationship Attraction, and is not difficult to grasp.

2. Laugh. A close relative to Play, laughter is the most infectious way to spread happiness. Before heading out on any date, most importantly, a first date, remind yourself that you’ll meaningfully search for reasons to feel wonderful and laugh. Smile as much as possible. At the waitress or waiter, at the hostess. Just smile for no reason.

3. Listen. This is one of the most important ways to connect with your date. Meaningful listening is when you shut off the voices in your head and tune in to what the person on the other side of the table is saying. Granted, your critical voice may be wanting to chime in for a variety of reasons. You don’t like the manner in which he slurps his soup. She constantly plays with her hair. Stuff like that are simply distractions. Just realize you are being distracted and bring yourself back into the present. Again, you don’t have to see them again if you do not desire to. This is an important practice, however, and it is a building block for intimacy. You will want to use this quality in your extended relationship, so why not get your practice in now. By the way, you don’t have to listen just in the dating world. You can manifest your own Law of Attraction Love today and sky-rocket your level of positive energy!

4. Eye Contact. Do not simply make eye contact and bob your head. Practice deep listening whilst making eye contact. This is a wonderful display of your own generosity. And I can assure you, that generosity will return to you. If you need the support of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means go get it! Using an independent listener to check in with will help you move off old patterns much faster.

5. Communicate. When it’s your time to speak, be clear and be heard. Since you’ve given your attention to your date, desire the same. You have not interrupted him or her while he or she has been talking. If an interruption occurs, request the same manners. You can be polite and nice about it without turning it into a problem. Simply kindly ask for what you’d like. Feeling confident in your request takes a lot of pressure off your date. By doing this your date firmly knows what you want.

It doesn’t matter if you are 25 or 75 dating - just like life - if viewed as a fun game, where there are no losers, your date will go much more smoothly for both parties.

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