Not being able to have a child of your own is not an easy thing to deal with. Even for those that get counseling for this it is hard to accept. Then come those occasions where everyone turns up with their children and somehow you seem to stand out from the crowd and it begins to trouble you again.

You will be able to find some really inspirational messages relating to your situation from any of these: encouragement quotes of encouragement scriptures of encouragement from the bible

the way forward out of any situation no matter how hopeless it may seem is to have a positive attitude. It should be something that you can talk about freely and there is no reason why should blame yourself really. So stop beating yourself about it and using it as yard stick to measure and judge yourself by.

Probably you might have gotten to a point where you were able to accept it but your spouse has never really gotten used to the idea that he cant have children with you and that’s what’s probably troubling you the most. Obviously such a situation is not easy for the both of you because he has to understand how you feel and at the same time you must put yourself in his shoes and understand how he feels.

Having been in the same situation myself I will tell you that this is one situation that has no clearly defined way of being dealt with. It calls for patience and understanding by both you and your spouse. If you find that there are occasions where you need to discuss this topic try talking about outside the house. Go out somewhere, for a drive, a picnic where the emotions won’t be so high.

There are sites that you can log onto as often as you like and you will always find an encouraging word there whenever you feeling low. They have helped me cope with my own situation and I’m sure they will work for you too.

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